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Authenticity and Integrity

Greetings to all. . I am a language teacher teaching English at UPVT, the state university besides a private Mexican school where I work as coordinator of bilingual education. I am a Dutch citizen and relocated to Mexico from Amsterdam; originally though I am from Izmir. Literature, animals (cats in particular), environment and environmental activism (no, it is *not* politics!), biking, badminton, walking (I truly dislike cars. .), befriending myself with passionate, sincere people who are not impressed by consumer culture but reach their own values and ethical principles. . . may give you a general impression I hope.

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
Bald / Shaved
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Slender
Height
5'  5"   (165 cm)
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Social Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Religion
Atheist
Education
Master's Degree
Occupation
Education / Teaching / Child Care
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Liberal
Favorite Music
Classical, Classic Rock, Blues
Favorites
Favorite Authors
All classical Russian writers; Orhan Pamuk, Irvin Yalom, Henry Miller. . .
Favorite Hangouts
I dislike bars
Favorite Cities
London
Favorite Colors
Black
Favorite Country
Greece
Favorite Drinks
Cappucino; red-wine
Favorite Dramas
All films of Bergman, Kieslowski, Pasolini. . .
Favorite Night Clubs
completely irrelevant to me. . .
Interests
Animals
love them
Art
a source of enrichment. . .
Children
innocent beauities in life. . .
Dogs and Cats
innocent beauities in life. . .
Football
Love semi-finals, finals at European Champions League. . .
Guns
shame upon mankind that we still have them. . .
Pets
lovrly babies!
Tennis
Roland Garros, Wimbledon, Australian Open
Traveling
Fun and enrichment; best friend for reneval in relationships. . .
Walking
I just love it. . .
Personality
Sociability Very Extroverted
Thought Process Average
Tolerance Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Casual
Energy Very High
Go Party
Religion Not a Part At All
Neatness Average
Punctuality Always Early
Insights
When raising a family, how important is it that your kids learn to speak Turkish?
Not that important
Describe the perfect evening.
Spending a late-evening at a pavement cafe (or modest pavement restaurant) in a charming Mediterranean town (ideally a Greek island), continue our spontaneous, non-pretentious talks on life, people together with our friends in that town; having a long walk at night through narrow, stony, old streets of the town -and feeling grateful to one another for the opportunity for experiencing love also as a convincing, stable meaning in life. . .
Describe your perfect weekend.
Cafes! (but not Starbucks -they are noisy!)
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Yes, I certainly do. . .
How many kids would you like to have?
Ideally one (a girl), two children sounds quite warm too -but surely not more than two. . .
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
By creating a peaceful world where there no national borders, silly, self-defeating obsessions for religion and ethnic identities (two never-ending causes of all wars), and where respect for lives of animals and environment are genuinely respected. . .
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
It is sickening if we complain about our previous relationships, our former friends. . As long as people come together with sincere intentions at the beginning, all relationships in past are positive. .
What do your friends like about you most?
Childish passion for life. . .
What do your friends tease you about the most?
My silly obsession for the Utopia (changing the world for better for everyone)
What gets on your nerves?
Those who reduce the meaning of life to shallow enthusiasms such as driving fancy cars, appearing in high-society hotels, restaurants, reading nothing but lives of celebrities in popular magazines. . .
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Deciding together in wisdom what our essential needs in life. . .
What's the best age to get married?
When we understand deep inside that a life-time relationship is the only central value and meaning in life, we are then ready -and time of the readiness is the ideal age :)
What turns you off?
Not having any opinion on life but following the false promises of consumer culture :Be rich, spend your life for your work, drive fancy cars, turn your children into monkeys for a successful career in the future by denying their right for being a child: happiness is guaranteed!" :)
What turns you on?
Being natural, sincere need and passion for conversations, doing/learning together -truly refreshing, thus, truly erotic too :)
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
At a quiet, charming train-station with my lover-friend, having breakfast in the garden of a cafe before we take another train to another unseen town. . . :)
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