I believe that people click on and off, but mostly on. There are a few things that can make or break a relationshsip of any kind. firstly, emotional attachment, which is linked to emotional stability. secondly, physical attraction, there has to be some sort of attraction between people. finally, intellect is very important, without this, no amount of emotional attachment or physical attraction will do. There must be intellecctual stimulation. Think about it, a relationshsip is like a negotiation, just like politics, both sides must be happy in order to move forward. Are we on the same wave length?