The longer you live, you will regret more things that you DID NOT do versus things you did. How long do people have to think about doing something as opposed to just doing it? I just go, and worry about stuff as it happens. I've taken my lumps, gotten through it like we all have, but it doesn't matter what happens, what matters is how you come out of it. I moved to NYC from California a year ago. I get to know some sweet spots around here, but I'm sure there are some hidden secrets I don't know about so let's go find 'em! i play hard and work harder. Nope, I didn't get the ordering wrong. but i always make time when the person is worth it.