Seeking for Soulmate.Honest and dependable

I am a no-nonsense, no drama guy. I am told that I am good looking (athletic and professional).I like to have good conversations - not gossip - about pretty much anything and a glass of wine (working on going more with feelings rather than thinking everything through). Life has broken and humbled me quite a bit.though hopefully I have learned from my missteps. I have learned that I must be honest even if it hurts me.I have loved and lost, so I think I have learned what is important.I work out regularly and enjoy the sports that wont cripple me at this point, e.g.,golf and have taken up sailing, or at least am learning).I read quite a bit.Let me build on that:the Love Style lists me as a Romantic,and while I agree with much of it as I do want a deep relationship that spans all aspects of love.What I am trying to be is have one foot in the Passionate love style-more "here and now