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Somerset, New Jersey
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In their own words

funtimes laughter romance and .. what else?

I beleive in the ability of dreams to change reality, I'm mystical but not religious. I'm definately not a typical Turkish American, if you are Turkish You'll be the first Turkish woman I've ever dated (They simply don't live where I've lived)and if you are not it doesn't matter, people count not race. I study chinese medicine (It's my second masters degree). I love chinese philosophy and martial arts. I'm adept at massage and am quick to laugh and joke, love camping, history, I love America because it is the land of equality and opportunity (But I'd like a new administration ASAP). I love intimacy but also need space and alone time. You can be my best friend but I won't choose between my friends and you, I'm all about letting you in the circle not leaving it. I plan on being succesfull in orental medicine but have little money now so if you need a rich man now look elsewhere. I think friends and love are the most important things we can have. I delight in thinking outside the box and often WANT to be outside the mainstream, even though I get along basically anywhere with anyone who doesn't go out of their way to quash my impulse to like everyone I meet. I love movies, comedy, bicycles,dogs, horses, archery and the beach. Life is too short for regrets. I read Casteneda, Frank Herbert, endless sci fi and history, magical studies and how to.

Appearance
Best Feature
Eyes
Hair
Black
Eyes
Hazel
Physique
A few extra pounds
Height
5'  7"   (170 cm)
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Religion
Other
Education
Master's Degree
Occupation
Student
Income
Student
Exercise
Regularly
Politics
Middle Of The Road
Favorite Music
Reggae, Classical, Classic Rock, Hard Rock / Metal, Acoustic, Rap / Hip-Hop, Alternative, , Dance / Electronica / House, Rock & Roll, Blues, New Age
Favorites
Turkish Food
afghan rice, yogurt, shepards salad (turkish)
Favorite Books
I like books better to read the than burn them
Favorite Colors
blue
Favorite Drinks
seltzer water and lime
Favorite Fast Foods
I'm learning to avoid them
Favorite Magazines
inside kung fu
Favorite Action Movies
kung fu, turkish cinema, Tarkan vs vikings
Favorite Night Clubs
I know a better place
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
its who does the kissing.
Favorite Politicians
none
Favorite TV Comedies
stand up
Favorite Foods
try new things
Favorite Styles Of Music
many
Interests
Acting
did some in college
Animals
love them, but not in the house except fish
Antiques
want to learn more
Art
many ways to do art
Barbecues
I'm the best
Bars
do better over coffee
Biology
fascinating, but not for dinner conversation
Camping
love it, but location makes or brakes it.
Comedy
essential to life
Cooking
I'm not bad
Live Concerts
miss going to them
Medicine
my field
Movies
love movies
Photography
want to do much more one day
Psychology
interested in NLP, human potential and self improvement
Reading
don't fear books and the information in them, just understand they are the end all be all
Singing
wish i could do it.
Writing
miss writing, always dreamed of writing great science fiction.
Personality
Adventurousness Somewhat Daring
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Trustingness Average
Confidence Somewhat Confident
Independence Somewhat Independent
Mood Average
Romance Average
Sociability Average
Thought Process Average
Tolerance Somewhat Unbending
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Casual
Energy Somewhat High
Go Party Never
Religion Not a Part At All
Neatness Average
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Average
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
When raising a family, how important is it that your kids learn to speak Turkish?
important enough to do it, but not enough to make them miserable with unrealistic demands. Some cultural things were forced on me and I rebelled. It's the fun things like turkish action movies and Tarkan comics I cherish to this day, not toiling away at language lessons just to please someone. Culture is to be enjoyed.
Describe the perfect evening.
when you know you feel a deep connection with someone, comfortable, safe, appreciated.. when you feel that you can take it anywhere and have fun.
Describe your perfect weekend.
With those who care for me, and I care for.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
many things happen at first sight, excitement, intrigue, pique and surprise. Passion at first certainly is a powerfull thing. But the deepest joys are found later.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
For one week let those who feel hatred and racism experience life in anothers skin. And for one week let those who are desperate and clueless, hopeless, learn what they need to change.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Best belong in the past. The future is what this is all about.
What do your friends like about you most?
I'm loyal, friendly, loving, fierce, emotional and entertaining.. And protect those I love.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
Everything, we are comfortable under our own skin.
What gets on your nerves?
People who don't live up tp their potential out of laziness and procrastination.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
respectlovepassion. I made it one word because they don't work seperately.
What turns you off?
Whatever it is I'm not afraid to tell you.
What turns you on?
wouldn't you like to know?
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Successfully running a chinese medicine clinic, debt free, enjoying life and having learned to play the SAZ well.
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