Life's too short so grab what pleasure you can !!!

I'm briging up my 3 sons myself, ages 13,15,16. I love traveling & the sun.Intend to retire from work early enough to enjoy myself & see the world, would be nice to share it all with someone special.. I am a family & homely person so if your looking for secure, trustworthy, GSOH, hard working, family oriented man with his own house & car then dont just sit there,, get in there 1st!!!!!!!!!!!--- OK UPDATE> well im starting to realise that most women seem to be scared of a man with kids,, well all I can say is you dont know a good thing even if its staring you in the face, how much more does a man have to do to show how serious he is when it comes to doin whats right, I know I got kids but it dont mean life stops does it? I know I got more than the majority of men out there to give to the right woman, & I mean in every sence possible, I would love to meet a Turkish or Cypriot(which I am) and live a long and happy life together planning our future, setting goals, travelling & just generally living the good life. Im a very confident person who knows right from wrong & wont compromise my beliefs of fairness & equality wheather its friends family or a partner,, thats all for now but im sure ill add as things go--OK UPDATE No2> I've decided most of you gals are too far up yourselvs, your not all princesses and yes you do have to work @ keeping a man (a good 1 anyway),,