I am a Bishop looking for a woman who is special!

I am a minister whose is a widower for the last three years who has no problem getting dates but can't find that special person God wants me to have! I have a daughter 22, who is a teacher,and married with a infant son.I have a son 19 ,who is a college athelete on scholarship away at a large university. I am over a training center at the largest oil refinery in the United States. I want to meet my new soul mate!