I know to smile and always look for the positive. the person on the inside,is the one that really counts, what evers in the persons heart, and some times sharing that with each other does help, because we are only human, and on this earth for a short time, by finding out the ways that people feel, I have been hurt many time already. and I kind to learn from that. I am single, because I have not found what I am looking for....? my best attributes i could show a man would be being myself and my good listening skills as well as my willingness to help and be there for him the best way i can-all you can really show anyone.