Come! Let's grow old Together

I am a for real man whose looking for that Queen to grow old, loving each other, as God has intended us to. I enjoy bowling, taking long drives, making a difference in kids lives, listening to Jazz, R&B, and just all out enjoyment of the one I will end spending the rest of my ife with. God has granted me resolve, in order for me to come home alive from Africa, Asia, and South America with only two holes added to my physical frame, but not my heart. God has granted me the strength to raise my daughter to be the woman she is now. I live by this: For the benefit of perception, we should have acceptance, certainty, compassion, comprehension, courage, determination, gratitude, maturity, perseverance, tolerance, validation, and wisdom. All the same, how a person prevails and cultivates from despondency, we either salute as achievement or perceive as a catastrophe; depending on the consequence. Nevertheless, how is one assessed for their achievements and/or failures? Do you evaluate by what was done by that person throughout their entire life; weighing the good against the bad? On the other hand, is it by how that life was lived, collectively, forming an unbiased opinion?