I am not a serial dater but I know what I want and who I am and never give up trying until I find the one. Did I not have disappointments or flattened dreams ooo yes I had plenty of that but hey what is the life for? To live or to watch? I suppose we all want to have similar things like; meaningful relationship, respect, understanding, fun, laugh, sharing dreams; enjoying each others company. Being solid gentlemen! :-) I am aware of pitfalls for both parts but as Dell boy says.. who dares wins! Please no pretenders, acting geniuses only contact if you are going to be yourself and not afraid of being open and honest.(point blank experience talking!) London or around UK preferred.