Looking for a man who loves children

I'm looking for love, a man who loves children, is a moderate muslim, preferably a Sufi. I either meet agnostics fo fundamentalist Muslims. It is very difficult to find a middle fo the road Muslim. I wouldn't mind a single father. Just soembody who'll love my son like his own and is willing to have another child of his own. I also prefer a family oriented man who will respect and love me for my intelligence and ability to survive despite all odds.