I'm a 39-year-old professional guy. University graduated. I love to be active, in mind and body. I enjoy the company of people who can challenge me intellectually and philosophically. I have a passion for life that seems to be very rare. I don't sweat the small details of life. I'm a creative person and have a short attention span for planning in small detail. I love music I'm very much into sports, especially fitness, and car racing I'm looking for an independent, confident, attractive, woman, 28-40, with an edge to her who shares my passions and a lot more (food! travel!). I'm looking for a real relationship", what I mean is someone to hang out with, where you can just be yourself, no pressure, and no expectations. Just for you and me and let's enjoy where things can go, I want someone to be my best friend, soul mate and lover. Someone that I can be chivalrous to, but who isn't emotionally needy. A passionate and highly sensual woman, but someone who values monogamy, loyalty and respect. Someone who understands that intimacy isn't created just in the bedroom, but is the result of a constant and conscious effort to have the courage to bare one's soul to another every day. That's a tall order, and I have high standards, but I'm not going to settle for less than what I want.