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46
Female
Never Married
London, England
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In their own words

~Honour is a luxury only a gentleman can afford~

The good news is my love is all enveloping like the sea, the better news a volcano is seething beneath so prepare thyself for seismic activity off the Richter Scale! The bad news-I'm prone to talking in a Wolfesque stream of consciousness, I lay it on the table good & bad. Here goes, I'm open-minded and warm hearted, perceived to be somewhat unapproachable (I'm told the haughty demeanour adds to my allure). I don't mean to be, admittedly it takes a self-assured man to make advances. You of course won't have that problem given the method of introduction. I'm told I'm an intellectual (but not in a threatening way). I'm bored at how often I'm told I'm beautiful or sexy (or asked whether I'm South-American-you'd think they had a monopoly on sex appeal). With regards to people / their opinions - I practice acceptance, tolerance & as a last resort avoidance. I'm fiercely independent & strong minded. I want to lean on someone not because I have to but choose to. I'm morally consistent & loyal to a fault if the other warrants it. Emotionally mature, loving & giving yet demanding. I can have a riotous good time or be as thoughtful as Rodin's "Thinker". What am I looking for? London, love it as I may, is in short supply of eligible Turkish bachelors (I'm never without suitors but none has conquered the Ilium of my heart). Perhaps I need that special someone who shares a common language & heritage, first as a friend & then... dare I say it kindred spirit!!!

Appearance
Best Feature
I'll tell you later
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Small
Height
5'  5"   (165 cm)
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Religion
Muslim
Education
Bachelor's Degree
Occupation
Law / Legal / Judiciary
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Occasionally
Politics
Liberal
Favorite Music
Middle Eastern / Persian / Arabic, Classical, Latin, Alternative, Rock & Roll, Blues
Favorites
Turkish Athlete
You of course once I'm through training you!
Turkish Food
Karniyarik
Favorite Actors
Al Pacino, De Niro, Johny Depp, Jack Nicholson
Favorite Actresses
Jodie Foster, Dame Judie Dench, Audrey Hepburn
Favorite Artists
Da Vinci for sheer genius, complex humanity and maverick factor
Favorite Authors
George Elliot, Jane Austen, Oscar Wild, Thomas Hardy, Emily Bronte... too many poets to mention
Favorite Bands
Rather like Coldplay at the moment.
Favorite Hangouts
Somewhere atmospheric and conducive to conversation
Favorite Books
Middlemarch by george elliot
Favorite Cities
London and Istanbul which I've yet to discover - you wanna be my guide!?
Favorite Clothing Stores
Too many to mention somewhere a little avant garde
Favorite Colors
green is my colour of the moment; black/brown staples in winter
Favorite Country
My own homeland and good old England of course
Favorite Drinks
cranberry juice - cant beat it, with or without vodka; coffee in the mornings x 3 through the day; Bloody Mary for a pick me up
Favorite Fashion Designers
Marc Jacobs of late (if I can ever afford it); Jaeger... too many others
Favorite Fast Foods
Wagamama or any turkish kebab shop!
Favorite Magazines
Dont really read them - can't bear to be told what my lifestyle aspirations or sense of self should be or whom I should be with
Favorite Comedies
As good as it gets
Favorite Dramas
In recent years "Croushing Tiger Hidden Dragon" - i assume it falls in this genre
Favorite Horror Movies
Seven!?
Favorite Action Movies
Fight Club - is it an action movie!?
Favorite News Anchor
Jeremy Paxman - no shadow of a doubt
Favorite Night Clubs
Preferrably with gay friends
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
Huh!? All over!? Somewhere peaceful in nature on a beach or by a river, sorrounded by stunning scenery!
Favorite Plays
Comedy - The importance of being earnest; Tragedy - Hamlet
Favorite Politicians
Most dont warrant a second thought but Mo Mowlam springs to mind more favourably than most; Out of love with Blair
Favorite Sports Teams
None that Im interested in. Besiktas!? (Stab in the dark)!
Favorite Restaurants
Somewhere with character/atmosphere - turkish middle eastern italina japanese - I don't fixate variety is the spice of life!
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Hear Me (Kelly Clarkson) - I wish you would!
Favorite Sports
Tennis or football (the english kind) - world cup if push comes to shove
Favorite Stocks
Anything through unit trust funds - i went on a financial investments course recently
Favorite TV Comedies
Fraser
Favorite TV Dramas
Any period drama... we brits are suckers for!
Favorite TV News Sources
Newsnight with Jeremy Paxman every time
Favorite Foods
Authentic turkish or japanese
Favorite Styles Of Music
Diverse - Arabic, Classical, some rock, blues r&b and turkish naturally
Interests
Acting
Should try amateur dramatics.
Animals
Don't possess any. Some are cute. Like horses
Antiques
Gorgeous in the right setting - i.e french farmhouse; georgian mansion
Art
The hallmark of civilisation - the expression of human evolution. But what's modern art all about, our current state of confusio
Astrology
Stargazing
Astronomy
stargazing in a scientific way
Barbecues
Like them. Why do men have a preoccupation with fire!?
Bars
OK in the right company but staying in is the new going out right!?
Biology
Vague recollection of.
Board Games
Chess - would like to relearn. The intellectual's board game.
Business Finance
Personal - bad at managing; professionally can grasp and manage just fine>
Camping
keep meaning to do it
Children
I do intuit them well. People should have them not because they can but because they can enrich the lives of children!
Circus
have fond memories of
Comedy
stand up
Cooking
Enjoy it - seems a waste for one - prospective partner must know how!
Dancing
Love it
Dating
Do it intermittently but there comes a time to knuckle down or so i'm told
Drawing
was once good at
Exercise
walk a few miles a day but eratic otherwise except for dancing when i can
Food
turkish italian japanese mostly love it
Football
i can take it or leave it mostly the latter
Gambling
not on
Gardening
i believe i might enjoy it
Guns
no way no how
Internet
what did we ever do without it
Medicine
do all drs have a god complex or only those of my acquaintance
Movies
an escape from reality or a dose of reality: in any case thank god they were invented
Opera
would recommend the experience
Painting
Not too bad at once - may improve with age - will revisit in my twilight years
Philosophy
part of my nature
Photography
stunning essential shocking - like it if i can master all the gadgetry
Politics
no longer as much of a burning issue for me sometimes we need to shut out the noise
Psychology
seem to have an innate understanding of - i can almost see a few professional eyebrows raised
Reading
Once a favourite pastime not as much time now. shall make more although reading 3 books simultaneously at the moment
Religion
I'd like to get closer to
Rugs
part of our heritage... afghan, persian, turkish all have a special place in the home
Shopping
Can shop til I drop simply because I'm oh, so thorough & stylish but not as often as one would imagine to look at me
Singing
not unless you'd like your eardrums damaged
Technology
Sometimes an impediment to human interaction methinks! Ironic huh!?
Television
For news, documentaries and can't miss drama/comedy - in small doses..
Tennis
OK to watch
Theater
Nothing like a well performed play to sharpen the senses... or is there!? I must make this a regular occurence
Video Games
Why were they invented - to render kids illiterate!?
Writing
do dabble in - will do so with more gusto in future
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Trustingness Average
Confidence Somewhat Confident
Independence Somewhat Independent
Mood Average
Romance Somewhat Romantic
Sociability Somewhat Extroverted
Thought Process Somewhat Analytical
Tolerance Somewhat Unbending
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Formal
Energy Somewhat High
Go Party Sometimes
Religion Average
Neatness Average
Punctuality Always On Time
Spending Out Of Control
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
When raising a family, how important is it that your kids learn to speak Turkish?
Very. A strong identity and a sense of belonging are critical.
Describe the perfect evening.
These things cannot be pre-empted. Element of surprise must be maintained. Suffice it to say an abundant supply of stimulating conversation will be the highlight! Can't go too wrong with a dinner in atmospheric sorroundings overlooking the sea (or the river Thames) followed by a romantic stroll...As for the perfect weekend, good things come to those who wait...
Describe your perfect weekend.
Somewhere peaceful and serene - long walks along the Thames or somehwere scenic in Berkshire. City breaks when I'm in my high-octane moods.
Do you believe in love at first sight?
The romantic in me wants to, experience dictates otherwise... There may be an initial thunderbolt, but love doesn't just happen, it's created by two committed people. Still, I'm willing to be proven wrong!
How many kids would you like to have?
Two or three would do nicely with a fully participating partner only.
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
I would inject people with truth serum, supply everyone with an inclination for tolerance and self-scrutiny in the hope that the combination of the latter two would avert unnecessary wars (or is it testosterone I need to eliminate!?)
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Of epic Shakesperean tragi-comic proportions but I wouldn't change a thing. Our history shapes us, it needn't hold us back, I've learnt to take something positive from every experience and can now look to the future, if that means evolving with someone special all the better!
What do your friends like about you most?
My honesty, confidence and loyalty; the juxtaposition of the philosopher with the sudden and unexpected currents of energy that carry everyone along willing participant or unwitting casualty, ooops... So if you don't wanna get caught up in my current don't get in my way!
What do your friends tease you about the most?
My tendency to wax on lyrical and enthuse about my subject matter... "You're not in Hyde Park now, nor do you have your soapbox" is a phrase I'm much accustomed to. Oh, also about my perceived domineering nature (but I'm a pussy cat, really... miaoow...)
What gets on your nerves?
V little I'm v tolerant. On second thoughts, judgemental, intolerant, insular people that are lacking in self-awareness but always willing to point the finger.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Trust and loyalty form the foundations on which every successful relationship is built. Friendship, sexual attraction and love are the bricks and mortar. But creativity, communication and respect will keep a roof over your head, so must win the day in the long run.
What's the best age to get married?
There is one!? Age is a state of mind so when emotionally and psychologically ready providing the small technicality of finding a soul mate doesn't prove too much of an impediment. I'm ready now!!! What's taking you so long!? Is it the woeful state of London Transport that's holding you up or the yet more dire beuraucracy of immigration, perhaps you got distracted by a pair of long legs on route...!? Well find me now. No further excuses will be tolerated!
What turns you off?
An inappropriate line of questioning! I'm the lawyer, I'll do the cross examination around here, thank you very much! Oh I know, emotionally and morally vacuous people... need not apply!
What turns you on?
My god it get's worse! Intelligent, emotionally intuitive people willing to express their deepest feelings and desires... As for the nitty gritty there'll be time and world enough for... Just watch this space
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Succesful at what I do now but daring enough to pursue some of my more creative dreams. Largely I live for the moment, so don't look that far into the future, I like to hope a partner I cherish and respect sufficiently to have a family with is on the horizon. I'll devise the small print nearer the time. That'll do right!?
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