I am a very up-beat person. I prefer not to look at the negative side of things. For me the glass is half full.I love to go out and experience different things, different cultures & it would be nice 2 meet my soulmate, but it will not be the end of the world if I do not. I like to laugh & have fun with someone special but I am very independent also.I can be very outspoken....I am not a shy wallflower, yet I am not a bigmouth or bully either :). I love to cook for my close friends and am family oriented.I have a 17 year old son(YES BELIEVE IT!) who most people think is my brother.(I love that...lol) and he thinks he is my father :0 He is very smart and means the world to me. I am very easy to talk to & a great listener.I am a corporate caterer,(also we cater parties and I specialize in wedding cakes) a business I share with my sister. It can be very hard work and much eye for details, but it is something about planning and executing the details of an affair for my clients that make them happy that is very exciting to me....lighting, food, decorations, music.... I love it, I meet new people all the time, and I will always welcome a new friend. Sometimes it takes me a little time to warm up to someone because I am cautious, but when I do I am very loving and loyal. I am very passionate about the things I believe in and I have a fiery nature.I hope that doesn't scare you because if it does then you are not the strong man I seek!:)