My name is Adrian and I do not live a very idle life style, I do not want to watch life through a T.V. screen but rather experience it firsthand, I think you should share these experiences that you have with a significant other and document such life changing events through a memorable picture albums. My career takes up lots of my time, but the time I do devote to others and myself involves quality and memorable experiences. I want a person to like me for who I am, also I believe a person should just be themselves, that your imperfections are your perfections, it is what makes you. I think two people should live there lives trying to reach there goals and aspirations, that they should not commit to extreme sacrifices for each other. If the pieces fit correctly then a natural unity between two people would form in a synergistic fashion creating a special bond, and if not that they could walk away minimally with a close lifelong friend and positive growth towards their life long dreams resulting in a gain and not a loss. This is not to say that sacrifice isn`t good cause it shows ones how much a person would give up to be with you, but not at the cost of your own happiness. This usually results in only buying time and an eventual heart ache. Now if the pieces fit but are a little rough on the edges then work them out. A true definition of a relationship or friendship is "problem solving" I say. and most of all remember to laugh at least once everyday - life is short, play hard