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Hello, I don't really look like Rasputin. I don't think I can measure up to his endowment either. If you are into that kind of thing I can try to tickle your fancy, But what really would tickle my fancy is something I call "brainwarp" when you know where the other person is going with a thought. You can lead, follow, dive just like an aerial dogfight. This is what I like a lot.

Appearance
Best Feature
I'll tell you later
Hair
Black
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Slender
Height
5'  9"   (175 cm)
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Trying to Quit
Drinking
Socially
Education
Doctoral Degree
Occupation
Internet / E-Commerce Technology
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
I'll tell you later
Politics
Liberal
Favorite Music
Middle Eastern / Persian / Arabic, Reggae, Gospel, Classic Rock, Alternative, Rap / Hip-Hop, , Punk, Classical, Latin, Hard Rock / Metal, Acoustic, Dance / Electronica / House, Religious, Blues, Rock & Roll, New Age
Favorites
Turkish Food
Karniyarik
Favorite Actors
Robert Redford, Woody Allen at a distance.
Favorite Actresses
Tuva Novotny,Marie Ttrintignant
Favorite Artists
Renoir
Favorite Athletes
MJ
Favorite Authors
Zoshchenko
Favorite Bands
Led Zeppelin
Favorite Hangouts
The ones that dont smell like butt
Favorite Books
Auto-da-Fé
Favorite Cities
Izmir, Istanbul, Paris
Interests
Antiques
Real antiques or junk. What are we talking about here?
Biology
I don't know much about history, don't know much biology. Well it turns out I do at the expense of sounding professorly.l
Dancing
Love it. Not so very good at it but love it.
Exercise
As a matter of fact I do like excercising. Just not practicing it as much as I like.
Gambling
Not a gambling man.
Philosophy
Murekkep yalamisligimiz var ama Philosophy deyince aklima Susan Vega geliyor.
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Trustingness Somewhat Skeptical
Confidence Somewhat Confident
Independence Somewhat Independent
Mood Intense
Romance Somewhat Romantic
Sociability Average
Thought Process Somewhat Analytical
Tolerance Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress
Energy Average
Go Party
Religion Not a Part At All
Neatness Average
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Somewhat Spendthrift
Work Ethic Workaholic
Insights
When raising a family, how important is it that your kids learn to speak Turkish?
Quite important.
Describe the perfect evening.
My perfect evening: Summer night, we are having dinner outside. You are wearing a white blouse that shows your shoulders. We are trying to act just content but can hardly hide the excitement. We start a sentence at the same time and tell each other "You go first", "No you first". Intoxicating smell of the linden tree blossoms gives everything a fresh and new feel. As if the world has just been newly created for this night.
Describe your perfect weekend.
I avoid NYC regularly. I seek ethnic cultural events, food etc. ("Ethnic" has some 3rd world ring to it but anthropological sounds so high brow.) Funny how things get labeled almost automatically. If someone attends "medieval fest" hmm, they almost fall into the same heap of the "trekky"s. Regardless, undeniably there are a lot of tension-struggle going on: Modernity versus X, Y versus Globalization, "my ethnicity versus" - Z, Consumerism versus T, Fat people versus the World, rich people versus the "lazy people" etc. etc. This is a fascinating subject. And not at all purely academic; we all participate in some form of it. What does it have to do with what I do on weekends: Nothing! (bkz. Chewbacca defense http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chewbacca_Defense)
Do you believe in love at first sight?
Definitely! It takes only seconds. You just know.
How many kids would you like to have?
2
If you could have one super power, what would it be and why?
I would zap the BS artists, starting with the politicians (and we all know who they are.) I would make it so that if you do your share of work you will be alright.
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
1.
What do your friends like about you most?
I miss my friends. They really did say all good things about me. That might have something to do with the fact that I did not say much "Baskalarinin tavuguna kisht". But at times I did. And those occasions it always involved some serios "BS"ing that I just could not take.
What do your friends tease you about the most?
I always obey the red light. As a driver, I do as a pedestrian I do.
What gets on your nerves?
Injustice.
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Trust.
What's the best age to get married?
35.
What turns you off?
Injustice. Bull*** artists. Egomaniacal people.
What turns you on?
Clever women.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
By that time I will have completed pulling myself up from my bootstraps. Maybe playing with a kid of my own.
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